

The origins of the word innocent are various. It’s about seeing beyond guilt and shame to the fundamental, universal innocence of all beings.

It’s about embracing compassion as a state of enlightenment, as the highest nature of ourselves and the true nature of God. It’s a practice of recognizing our own inner beauty and watching it manifest as love and healthy attachment in our relationships. “Everything has beauty, but not everyone sees it.” Loving kindness is kind of like looking at ourselves and expressing love-then letting that love reverberate, like two mirrors reflecting one another into infinity. This is the work of finding self-forgiveness, releasing shame and guilt, and loving ourselves for exactly who we are. It is part of the difficult inner work we all face. Loving kindness is not just about empathy, presence, and listening in regards to others. My whole life, I’ve been doing it backward-extending love to others and then, only at the end, if there was space left, extending it out to myself. Finally, as I lay in bed drifting off to sleep the other night, the answer came to me at once. So what was it about this practice I found so difficult? Cross-legged on the carpet, I pushed my headphones into my ears and listened carefully to every word-until I couldn’t anymore, and I turned it off.įor the rest of the day, I wondered, why? I think of myself as a kind person. When I sat down to do one of Jack Kornfield’s loving kindness meditations (find it here), I found it surprisingly difficult. Of course, that doesn’t mean it’s an easy task. I believe we all have the capacity to embrace loving kindness in our daily lives. But what makes loving kindness (also known as lovingkindness) a practice rather than a feeling? In his video Seeing the Goodness, Jack Kornfield refers to the practice of loving kindness as “seeing the original innocence, dignity, and beauty of another.”Īt first glance, this might sound like a simple thing to do. “A little kingdom I possess, where thoughts and feelings dwell and very hard the task I find of governing it well.”
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